BEING IN CONTROL

Control is a moving target, just when you think you have things under control it slips away. Have you ever felt out of control? In life we strive to have a handle on things, get a grip. How does God fit into the control we want to have on our lives? Greetings in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Have you noticed that in racing we don’t reveal everything? We tend to hold information very close. Think about the interview with a driver or crew chief after practice. It may go something like this; “the car is good, but we can still get a little more out of it.” Then ask the other competitors who has a fast car and they will tell you straight out, “so and so has the car to watch.” As you listen to the postrace interviews the drivers are honest because the secret is out, “no one was going to catch him, he had a rocket.” The art of playing the racing game, don’t let them know what you have until you need to.

This sort of thinking showed up once in a tech inspection announcement. It appeared that the certain make of engines were generating a tremendous amount of horsepower and NASCAR wanted to dyno their engines against the other competitors. Without notice they announced during the race that they were going to pull several cars after the race and dyno the engines right in the car. This, they felt would give them an actual indication of what the engines produced in race trim. They needed to do it this way because if they announced it and gave the teams notice they would not be assured that no gamesmanship was taking place.

That didn’t stop one team from trying. They thought they could find a way around the request and put a spacer behind the gas pedal to prevent the engine from turning max rpms. They got caught and fined. This just reveals the great lengths we will go to control the outcome of a situation. Even the threat of penalty doesn’t deter us from trying to control the outcome.

We have phrases we use to describe those who seek to control how things are viewed; spin doctor, damage control and the like. All created and practiced to control what others hear and think about a situation. They all fall into the category that our passage talks about today. We say things we don’t mean, swear to them, invoke God’s name all in an effort to convince others to do it our way. Look at this section of verses out of the passage we read last week.

Matthew 5:33-37:  “Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, `Do not break your oath, but keep the oaths you have made to the Lord.’ But I tell you, Do not swear at all: either by heaven, for it is God’s throne; or by the earth, for it is his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King.  And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black.  Simply let your `Yes’ be `Yes,’ and your `No,’ `No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.

Manipulating others is a harsh concept for us to admit, but it is something that we all engage in. There a very few truly honest people in this world. When we see one, we call them stupid. Why? Because they are vulnerable and they don’t play the game of manipulating their words to please or protect.

I remember the movie Forest Gump? Do you know what made him special? He was truly honest. His yes meant yes and his no meant no. When he had something to say he said it; he wasn’t what we would refer to as tactful. Looks and sounds so strange to us doesn’t it.

How about us? Have we fallen into the trap of making commitments and promises that we can’t keep? We deceive ourselves into thinking we can control the events of our life. We cannot but that doesn’t prevent us from making commitments to others that are out of our control. Look at what Jesus says in this verse, “you cannot even make one hair white or black”. Actually I think we can make them gray by worrying about too many things, but I digress. We really do not realize how little control we have in our lives.

Jesus councils us to simplify things, less is more. Say yes when the answer is yes and no when the answer is no. Don’t spend time thinking it through, overthinking things trying to decide what spin you can put on it. When we do that we end up making promises that we cannot keep. Worse yet we have to think up another way to cover for the things we didn’t do.

In sports, gamesmanship is part of the deal. We reveal things in a way as to keep others thinking and guessing, keeping the competition off balance. Don’t let that become a lifestyle. We can get so caught up in manipulation, control and orchestrating events that our lives spin out of control. We don’t know what is real and what is fabricated. The burden becomes overwhelming. Jesus wants to remove that burden.

Take steps this week not to embellish the truth, just speak as truthfully as you can. Let your yes be yes and your no be no. Turn to Jesus for help with that. Your life will be simpler and your mind won’t be clogged up trying to remember who you told what. Remember God’s promise;

Matthew 7:7-8,  “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.

Have a great week, remember to keep things simple. Until next time, remember God loves you and Jesus is Lord over Auto Racing! God Bless. Remember, that your prayerful support helps us continue this ministry. Thank You.

25.3.2018
 

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